Sunday, August 30, 2009

Genesis; Chapter 1

I guess we all of alternative disposition gets asked the question 'how or when did you know?' I usually do not give that question much thought and the answer is cliche'- 'I always knew'.

Surprisingly, my first sexual experience was with a boy and whilst it was ok, my first experience with a girl was mind-blowing. I have alternated between girls and boys since teenage years.

I don't intend to tell the stories as I don't want this blog to be about me and the best I can is provide answers to those who seek to get into the kind of a bisexual.

At the queer bash yesterday, a friend asked me if I ever intend to one day settle to playing for one team. I can't even contemplate.

I have also being asked if I consider what I do as cheating on my wife. Surprisingly, I do not think so as she knows what I am up to and secondly, she realizes that she cannot give me all I need. When it comes to my male partner, am the receptive one. And I do use protection.

Thursday, August 27, 2009


After lurking and snooping on many African gay and lesbian blogs for the last 8 months or so, I felt the need to start my own blog.

This is because although I identify with a lot of what the bloggers write, I do not find a resource for people like me.

Bisexuals are more misunderstood than gays or lesbians and rarely come out. Gays believe that we are just confused closeted cowards who want to hide in a straight society. Straights( If I can call them that) on the other hand believe that we are evil people who are curious about the other side and lie about it.

This being my first post, I will not get into what we are and just say that I am creating a platform for sharing. I spend a lot of time online and will provide links and resources for bisexuals in Kenya. It maybe a story, or a joke or even photos.

I may even provide anecdotes on my life and explain how it is I can manage to have a boyfriend and a wife at the same time with little or no conflict and how I manage that.

Like they say on fm stations..keep it here!